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How to Handle Kids Who Don’t Like to Read

October 23, 2015 By Jimmie Quick 6 Comments

How to Handle Kids Who Don't Like to Read

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One of the coolest parts of being a homeschool blogger is connecting with like-minded moms across the world and talking shop. This week I met New York Times bestselling author Heidi Schulz who is also a homeschool mom to an only child. And fortunately for you, we met via Google hangout which was recorded to YouTube, so you can meet Heidi too!

Heidi Schulz’s novels are for middle grade readers:

  1. HOOK’S REVENGE
  2. and the sequel, HOOK’S REVENGE: THE PIRATE CODE
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(These books are on my Amazon list for the next time I make a purchase. I seem to always have a running list of things to buy. I am hooked on my Amazon Prime membership.)

Her daughter, just like mine, isn’t a voracious reader, but of course Heidi wants her daughter to be an enthusiastic reader.

Besides her practical advice to encourage reluctant readers, Heidi has the right perspective on the entire issue.

It’s not about reading logs, incentive programs, and pressure. It’s about reveling in books in the midst of a healthy parent child relationship.

The video is below, and I also pulled out a few key points in text.

How to Encourage a Love of Reading

Heidi said several times in the conversation that we have to remember the end goal — a love of learning. So everything we do to encourage reading needs to feed into that. You can’t force someone to enjoy something. But you can draw a picture of how attractive an activity is and then savor it yourself to model that joy.

One of Heidi’s suggestions that I most loved was simply to talk to your child about what you are reading. It’s that common advice of “let your kids see you reading” taken to the next logical step. Not only do they see you with a book in your hands, but they also hear you talking excitedly about the great story you read. You engage them in a conversation about the novel just like you would a television show or a story that happened to you.

She is a proponent of weekly library visits and letting kids choose things they are interested in and then check out as many books as they can physically carry.

Methods that Backfire When Trying to Encourage Reluctant Readers

Anything that involves pressure is going to be counterproductive for instilling a love of learning. So Heidi recommends being nonchalant when a child does express interest in a book. And don’t succumb to my common temptation: don’t make a unit study or lapbook out of every book your child likes. Just let your child enjoy the book for the sake of the story. Period.

Your goal is to encourage recreational reading. So let it be fun without any extra academics or assignments attached to it.

What to Look for When Selecting or Recommending Books

It’s best to let kids choose their own books. But strategically placing books where a child can see them is a valid method. Heidi recommends choosing books with these characteristics

  • humor
  • action, especially at the beginning of the book
  • short chapters that give a feeling of success
  • story line with a brisk pace
  • lots of white space on the page
  • illustrations

Heidi reassures us that comic books (graphic novels), magazines, books in verse (poetry), and picture books are all valid reading choices. Don’t rule out anything. However, it is okay to reserve your book budget for high quality books and leave twaddle for library checkouts.

Make Books Part of Family Traditions

Heidi’s family has a tradition of getting new pajamas and a book on Christmas Eve. Plus books are a common gift for birthdays and other special occasions.

Sneaky Starts

One great tip is to start reading a new book out loud and then get purposely interrupted so that you have to set the book down. Heidi jokingly says to her daughter, “Now, don’t read ahead without me!” Of course, this playful tone is understood as an open invitation to continue reading. Often getting started in a new book is the toughest part, so helping kids over this hump makes a big difference.

If you have a chance, watch the entire video as you will enjoy getting to know Heidi and hearing her heart on the entire issue of books and reading.

Great Pinterest Boards to Follow for Reading

If you’d like a steady stream of more great reading information, I suggest you follow these five Pinterest boards.

  1. Family Reading Time by BookShark
  2. Family Book Club by My Little Poppies
  3. Great Books for Homeschool by CurrClick
  4. Reading for Homeschool by iHomeschool Network
  5. Struggling Readers by This Reading Mama

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Comments

  1. Susan Evans says

    October 23, 2015 at 11:03 am

    My daughter was having trouble finishing the “Little House on the Prairie” series. She just started a series that has a lot more action, and she is voraciously reading again! You really have to take into account the kid’s personality when choosing books.

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  2. Shecki @ Greatly Blessed says

    October 28, 2015 at 2:19 pm

    My son really struggled with reading. Now that he’s gaining fluency, he’s much more interested in reading.

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  3. Elizabeth @ Homeschool Crafters says

    November 23, 2015 at 9:25 pm

    I’m going to be honest and say that reading for pleasure is still a struggle in our home, however it is getting better. I have tried my hardest to encourage a love of reading on their own, but they still prefer when I read to them aloud. I have also let them know that if they don’t understand a book or are not enjoying a book, that it’s okay to put the book back on the shelf to get a new one. My oldest is now enjoying the Diary of A Wimpy Kid series, however she is one that doesn’t like change so I don’t know if she will be eager to choose a new book once the series is finished. Thanks for sharing this post.

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  4. Jenn Roberts says

    December 4, 2015 at 10:33 am

    This is a great post! Thank you for the tips. I’m going to share it with my reader 🙂

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  5. Lisa Nelson says

    December 16, 2015 at 9:25 am

    These are all fantastic suggestions! I think I go into panic mode when my kids pick the fluff and poo poo the good stuff. Thinks for this reminder!

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  6. Let's Homeschool High School says

    February 1, 2017 at 3:59 pm

    I love these tips! Especially the one about talking excitedly about a book you’re reading. I’d definitely heard about making sure they see you reading, but this makes so much sense to do! It must be kind of cool if a book could get mom *that* excited, right?!

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